Posts Tagged ‘Indian Wedding’

Hindu Priests and Religious Considerations

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Hindu religion plays a major role in an indian wedding. Traditionally, this starts from the birth time astrological readings of the couple to determine compatibility. This custom has carried on from yesteryears which involved formal arranged marriages.  Nonetheless, even in modern times, this custom is still followed. I did it for the curiousness and ‘check’ the customary steps.

The next most important steps is choosing an auspicious date and time for the wedding ceremony. The hindu priest is consulted for this task. In Australia, some hindu priests can also conduct the legal marriage, which is just as important.  For a complete list of indian temples  and priests in Australia, contact the Hindu Foundation of Australia and the Hindu Council of Australia.

In all the fun and festivities of organising your indian wedding, don’t forget to organise to be legally married in Australia. You must visit the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages in your relevant state for the information. In Victoria, the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages provides guidelines and answers to most frequently asked questions.

Firstly, there is a bit of paperwork to fill out like a Notice of Intended Marriage among other things. In Victoria, you can be married by an authorised minister of religion or a civil marriage celebrant. The Hindu Council and Hindu Foundation can help you in this regard.

Please comment if you think, I may have missed something or need to explain further.

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Indian wedding preparations

Monday, March 16th, 2009

Indian weddings are celebrated these days usually over 3 three days with the main wedding being held on the third day.

Day 1: Engagement / Tilak Ceremony

Day 2: Haldi & Mehndi Night.

Haldi by Avani B Patel

Haldi by Avani B Patel

The bride has haldi (turmeric)  applied all over her hands, feet, face and arms to make her skin glow in preparation for the big day. This is celebrated at the bride’s place and attended by women. After the haldi ceremony, mehndi is applied to the brides hands and feet in elaborate decorations and her nails are painted to get her ready for the main wedding event which is on the next day. This is a fun night with lots of songs.  Other women also apply mehendi for fun.

Henna (mehndi) is also applied to the groom at his place by women to make him look really handsome for the big event. Although, the celebration at the groom’s place is more low key when compared to the festivities celebrated at the bride’s place.

Wedding Mandap by Fred Hsu

Wedding Mandap by Fred Hsu

Day 3: Main indian wedding day. The wedding is conducted under a mandap (canopy like structure) by the priest. The bride’s parent’s give their daughter away and the couple make their vows by making seven rounds around a small contained fire. This ceremony last about an 1-1.5 hours. Most bride/groom chose to have the reception at the same time. But if money is not an issue, then elaborate evening reception follows after the wedding ceremony.